The down low - Bi Husbands
I am now playing with two married men that are fooling around
with me behind their wive's back. I take the convenient
attitude that it is mostly their problem, and if it was not
with me it would be with someone else. It fits 'my friends
with benefits' needs and there is little or no chance
they'll want a relationship with me.
I do not think this is true swinging. In each case I ask if
their wife would be interested in a 3way, and they look at
me like I am from the Planet Claire.
I am not very possessive with my partners when I am with them,
but usually insist on the rules for me apply to you as well.
and Its not cheating if the rules allow it. I had one guy say
he'd break up with me if I ever cheated on him, yet he
cheated on me 3 times. What's up with that?!?
With the first guy, he's married since we had last done
anything. I asked him to make sure it was ok with his wife.
I did not want the guilt associated with messing up his marriage.
He explained he was the same old same old he always was, and
has already "fooled around" on his wife and
it would be nothing new. The reason I rekindled the FWB relationship
is pretty serious, and some readers may understand, some
may not. I will explain it.
I had major surgery early this year. The Sex after surgery
pamphlet, I received, explained when I should be able to
resume sexual activity. But it cautioned I should do so
with a regular partner, saying a new partner would cause
undo stress, and may be problematic. My dilemma was, while
I was not well, I had a very long dry spell. I had no regular
partner, especially one I could call out of the blue and
say "hey wanna fuck, to make sure I still can, without
blowing up"?
Except this guy. I called him and explained the sitch, and
he agreed - imagine that. I was his first guy ever, and now
he is like a bisexual spokesmodel (LOL). This kind of bond
is difficult to break. So anyway, he comes over one night,
and we basically became 2 monkeys for a night, and I was happy
to learn everything worked with no side effects.
ALSO, since then, I feel 21 years younger now and have had
a lot of great sex since. Mostly of the kind the booklet warned
against! The other married guy is a bi-curious
ex-football player that seems to step out on his wife quite
a bit. Well, I assume so since his profile says "single",
but when I asually asked him if he was indeed married he said
yes, with not much hesitation.
This article is more a treatise on my thoughts of this, that
I just did not feel like blogging about. I read the comments
on my articles, and would really be interested in what people
have to say about what I am writing about. I love discourse.
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