Honesty
Honesty, that's what most people start off with, when
describing what they are looking for in a relationship.
However, I have found very little honesty on this or any
site.
Let's start with physical attributes. Unless health
class has changed dramatically in the past few years. If
you weigh more than 20 pounds above your height ratio, then
you have a couple extra pounds. This does not put you in the
athletic category. You may slid in the average slot, but
what is average today?
Then there is the part where you say your looking for e-mail
chat. Are you, really? It would seem to me if that were true,
you would respond. At the very least, you would respond
saying that they don't have what you are looking for.
A friend of mine said he sent a note to a lady nine times, and
she finally blocked him. She would not have needed to do
that if she had replayed to his first advance. A simple "not
interested" would work fine. Where is the honesty
here?
Then there are the one's saying they want a one on one
relationship, with discretion. So you try and work with
there time frame and obligations, then they don't
show up, or just stop returning your e-mail. They don't
even say why. Again where is the honesty?
I know I'm not the sharpest tool in the shed, but if your
not looking to hook up and have some fun, why the hell are
you here?
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