Vaginal Intercourse
Vaginal intercourse It is the act of inserting the penis
into the vagina, and is one of the most pleasurable experiences
that two people can share. This article only covers the
basics in what you need to know, make sure to visit the rest
of the site for more advanced techniques.
First Time
The first time having sexual intercourse, for many people,
is never what they expect. It is never as fulfilling or beautiful
as fantasized about or seen in media. Your first time can
be a very intimate experience if taken slowly, but do not
expect it to be the best sex you will ever have. For women,
their first couple of times will be painful and the man needs
to take extra special care in going slow and listening to
her needs. From the other point of view, many men suffer
from a performance anxiety their first time as a result
of all this pressure to knock her boots off. If this happens,
return back to foreplay, do not let it bother or stop you
as it is natural. When the time is right, everything will
happen, so be supportive of each other.
First time sexual encounters are usually fumbling, learning
experiences, where both people are just starting to understand
their partners body and how to make that person satisfied
sexually.
Movement
Sex is all about trying to stimulate the sensitive areas
of the vagina and penis, how you move should depend on your
preferences and the position. Some people enjoy slowly
rocking together, others enjoy quick shallow strokes,
and yet others love nothing more then the sensation of deep
penetration. There is no right or wrong way, as long as both
people are enjoying the experience.
A common misconception is that thrusting faster means
better sex. Although most people enjoy going really hard
right before climax, this point must be reached before
the approach feels good. You should always try new things,
keep mixing it up by varying your speed and the depth as you
build towards climax.
Finding the rhythm may take some time, as will getting your
abs, legs, arms and back into shape. Though most positions
dont require a great deal of strength, they all require
endurance, so strengthening your muscles is a good place
to start.
Lubrication
Many couples find that a lubricant makes for a far more enjoyable
experience. Unless your female partner creates large
amounts of lubrication, it is a good practice to use a lubricant.
It decreases the chance of irritation if intercourse either
happens frequently or lasts for long periods of time. For
men with a large penis, it is also a good idea to have some
lube handy on your first few encounters with a new partner
in case your size is a little overwhelming at first. You
can buy lubricant at most pharmacies.
Protection
I cannot stress enough the importance of using protection,
especially with new partners. Once you know your partner's
history and have both been checked out, assuming both partners
remain faithful, it should be safe to use contraceptives
that only offer protection from pregnancy. STD's
are spreading like wild fire throughout the entire world,
especially in the 18-25 demographic. Although condoms
do take a little away from intercourse, is it worth sacrificing
your sexual health for that little extra pleasure? Protection
is everyone's responsibility and there are no excuses
for not using it. offer to rub lotion on a woman (unless you're
getting unmistakable buying signals from her)
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