Swinging? For those who suffer insecurities?
When you are insecure about yourself, your partner or just
your relationship swinging can be a difficult achievement.
In order for it to work, you must be able to trust that the
whole experience will be for sexual pleasure and nothing
else. If you are worried that your partner will compare
you with someone else, how are you going to enjoy the experience?
You need to know that you and your partner are both in it just
for sexual pleasure. If you don't know that, then the
doubts in your head could ruin the experience. Not to mention
the "after" thoughts you might have. Those
can ruin the relationship between you and your partner!
If you want to try swinging, you need to know what your reasons
for wanting it are. Also those of your partner. Ask your
partner why they want it. If it is to please you, then you
might want to think twice. Swinging is fun, if you are ready
for it. If you try to push your partner into it, will your
partner enjoy it? Some people are afraid to try it, because
of insecurities. If you or your partner have doubts, discuss
those doubts. It may be a doubt that is easily erased. Remember
this, Swinging is for the enjoyment of all involved. Just
make sure that all parties want it for that reason and you
should have plenty of fun!
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