Penis size issues revealed, and questions answered.
I see this question and debate come up so often here it is
not even funny! Today I am going to offer an answer to all
those annoying penis size issues. This covers nearly every
aspect you could care to know about when it comes to size
and its impact on womans minds and the physical impacts
of intercourse. Please bare with me as this is a long article
that I think many of you men should read as well as you women
who have to deal with a man who is insecure about his size.
(I will post smaller versions over the next few days, however
this article will provide the best direct assault on the
issue).
The average penis over the years: Age 15) 4 5/8, age 16) 4
7/8, 17) 5 1/4, 18-19) 5 1/8, 20-25) 5 1/8 6 1/8.
The Average American is 6 or less and 1 1/2 in diameter when
erect.
The average world wide penis is 5 1/4 or less and 3 1/2 flaccid.
It appears that American men are an average of 40% larger
then Japanese men in the adult years. It appears that Asian
women have smaller vaginas then that of American women.
(Therefore when within the same ethnic group Asian men
may be smaller but so are Asian women thus making that size
difference not much of a difference at all).
In the research of Edwards (1997) the reported average
for self measured erect penises was 6 3/8 for black men,
6 3/8 for Caucasian men, 5 3/8 for the Hispanic men, and 5
1/2 for the east Asian men.
Grady and Tanfer reported that black men who use condoms
were five times more likely to report condom breakage than
the men of other races who used condoms. As to the exact size
difference it is still unknown cause research indicates
very little size difference between whites or blacks during
erection.
The only real difference in penis size between American
men and African American men are within the flaccid penis.
African American men tend to be 1/8 to 1/2 inches thicker
and 1/3 to 1 1/4 longer. A tiny flaccid penis is deceiving;
a tiny one may be large when erect or small when erect. There
is no research to confirm that a small flaccid penis is actually
small when erect, never judge a book by its cover.
Companies who sell condoms in Japan who also sell condoms
in America have to increase the sizes for distribution
in America due to the average difference in sizes.
Out of all research studies the largest average any have
claimed to be is 6 1/8.
The average flaccid is 3- length and 1 /18 in diameter.
(As you can see there is not much of a difference in flaccid
diameter and erect diameter).
Abnormally small penis size: Of the millions of men who
have small penises, only a small percentage of them have
a penis so small that it could be described as abnormal.
Micropenis: In Micropenis the penis is often extremely
small and sometimes not much bigger then a clitoris. Micropenis
can result from a number of conditions and becomes a manifest
at birth. Testosterone treatments can fix this issue in
most cases if it is caught in time. It is essential to treat
this at an adolescent stage cause once a man enters puberty
or has finished puberty is it nearly unchangeable.
What Size Penises Women Prefer: The Preponderance of
experts on sex maintains that penis size and vagina sizes
have no or almost no relationship to sexual pleasure and
satisfaction. They cite the fact that the vagina can expand
sufficiently to give birth to a baby. They cite the fact
that the inner two thirds of the vagina is relatively insensitive
to touch. They tend to say that incompatibility of genital
size is rare. Basically the vagina is so constructed that
it stretches to accommodate whatever penis size is inserted.
A mans ability to satisfy a woman in the sex act does not
depend on the size of his penis. The sooner we get rid of this
notion the better off everyone will be. The size of a mans
penis is not a central concern to a woman, who knows from
experience that she is equally satisfied by any size, as
long as he knows what he is doing. (A vagina will stretch
to accommodate size some, mostly in girth and only becomes
a large issue if a woman has recently had a large penis. Her
vagina must shrink back down over time before she can experience
equal pleasure of a smaller penis. That means think twice
before jumping into bed with a man who has a large penis as
the average man does not and could drastically alter the
course of your future sex life).
Women tend to fantasize about a larger penis. However that
is a fantasy and does not always mean that she actually wants
one. Most of those researched fantasies involved a penis
so large that it can not physically fit into a womans vagina.
A fantasy is a fantasy and does not mean she wouldnt settle
with a man of average size or smaller.
The Measuring Myth: Edwards (1997) had men measure both
the size of their own erect penises and the distance between
the tip of their middle finger and the furthest point where
the middle finger touches the palm in the direction of the
wrist. It is apparent that men with longer hands tend to
have larger penises. The men with larger penises tend to
also have a larger shoe size. Shoe size, however, was not
as strongly related to the penis size as the hand size.
Penis size possibly plays three roles towards women. The
large penis is possible to be a symbol of masculinity, the
large penis is as to masculinity as Cadillacs and caviar
and fur coats and country clubs are to wealth. The stimulation
provided by the penis in sexual intercourse is another
possibility. The third is visual appeal. This is comparable
to some men who like to look at large breasts. Some men prefer
medium breasts and others may prefer smaller breasts.
Breasts, however, play a very little role of actual sexual
intercourse.
Possible ways to increase penis size:
The penis pump: While the penis does seem to increase
while in the pump, it is normally an effect that only lasts
4/5 hours. Personally though, a penis pump can be risky.
The penis also averages about 3 inches of length that is
below the skin. A pump can pull that hidden length upward
increasing your size somewhat. Doing so can drastically
change the power of your erection or length you are able
to sustain an erection. Do you really want to risk your erection
abilities just for an added 1 to 2 inches?
Manual: It is claimed that pulling and stretching a penis
several times a day brings about enlargement. Men who masturbate
frequently tend to have a larger penis over time.
Weight hanging: Some men hang light objects from their
penis. This tends to increase flaccid size but has little
to no impact on erect size.
Warm water: It is claimed that the placing of a penis in warm
water will normally obtain more then temporary enlargement.
Surgery: It is possible to move fat from one area of your
body to your penis and increase your girth. Some surgeries
pull up the buried length of your penis similar to the way
a penis pump can. Other surgeries involve an actual implant.
Again, you can loose or damage your erection abilities
with these treatments. Another side effect is listed in
the example below.
Christ and Askew reported on a 42-year-old man who received
an implant 14 years earlier for the purpose of size augmentation.
The results had been satisfactory for the first 11 years.
Two years prior to his hospital admission his penis began
to increase greatly in size to the point that it became too
massive for penetration. Also, he became unable to obtain
an erection. Two surgeries were required to remove the
masses. The impotence, however, was permanent.
The primary source of information contained in this article
was from a book written by: Donald I. Templer, Ph.D. Is SIZE
Important?
Donald I. Templer is a professor of psychology at the California
school of professional psychologyFresno. He is both
a practicing and an internationally recognized researcher
with over 200 publications.
Now that all that is said and done I am going to put a little
backbone on it. We are who we are! Many people say that our
personality makes up for our penis size as men. I can not
agree with this, I think it is our penis size that makes up
for our personality. Small, medium, large it really does
not change anything. Everyone likes different things
and that is just a fact of life. Some women like some medium
some small and others large. If she doesnt like youre
size then get over it, find a woman who doesnt mind your
size. They do exist, and your better off being with someone
who truly appreciates you and your body for what it is then
you are to stay with someone who will make you only be what
they personally want you to be. It is very possible that
a woman ruins her own sex life by seeking a larger man. I have
met a few personally who sought out a large guy and after
several weeks of the relationship it stretched the width
of her vagina and made it far less pleasurable when she then
tried to have sex with a smaller man. I agree with the statement
about the vagina stretching to accommodate size, both
good and bad things can come from it however. You must remember
that the average guys length is not what would be considered
big. That average goes into the high 70% range of all male
penises. Yes I believe the women when they say that a large
penis gives them added bonuses as far as stretching and
touching their cervix. If that is what she likes then us
gentlemen must accept that and move on, there is no reason
to bitch about it or get hung up on it. Be yourself, and eventually
you will find that fits like a glove so to speak.
Written by:
A Mystic Writer and Hopeless Romantic....
All information within my articles is "my"
opinion. "My" opinions are formulated through
talking to real life people, and past relationships. Thanks
to the last ten years of community service work it has given
me the opportunity to get to know many older women and couples,
I hope I have learned from them and hope those that tried
taught me correctly. Passion happens to be "My cup
of tea" so to speak, and by no means am I telling people
to imitate me. Even I have the desire for a good hard encounter
once and awhile as well. Regardless remember that the only
person who really knows what another wants is that person
himself or herself. No one can ever speak for another accurately!
Your comments or feedback are more then welcome. If you
feel I miss something or need to clarify something then
please let me know and I will fix anything I overlook.
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