why can't we just say no
How many times have you written to someone and waited patiently
for a reply? Did you wonder if they read your reply to their
ad at all? Did you wonder, do they think I am ugly and not write
me back? why didn't they just write me back and tell
me they were not interested?
It takes two seconds to type I am so happy you answered my
ad and I know you will have luck in you quest soon, but I do
not think we are a match. If you go into a bar and a woman or
man that looks like they would scare little children approaches
you do you encourage them or ignore them totally hoping
they will go away? An unanswered reply doesn't always
mean the person finds you ugly but it is sure hard not to wonder,
so people in the future if your a platinum or silver member
email them back and at least say sorry not my type. It is the
kind thing to do.
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