Professional's Help ?
I asume that like many of the married men and women on here,
we are on here looking for that something that is missing
from our current situation and I seek advice for mine. I
love my wife and family, but after some 10 years of marriage
and although unlike some our sex life is there, she has reduced
down the menu list available to me. Giving and receiving
oral sex is now ruled out, dressing up for me and making efforts
to spice up our sex life has gone and she seems to just have
sex as part of the marriage not part of us etc. I have tried
many times with help from here to educate myself with the
likes of Dr Laura and such, weekends away, flowers, she
refuses to even entertain reading them and says that it
is a problem I have and should be happy with my lot. The question
is simply this .... should I be happy with my lot ? or seek
professional help such as escorts to satify me? I am on Adult FriendFinder
because I thought I would find someone with the sames requirements,
but my need for love etc is not there, but a requirement for
sexual satifaction is and feel personally that the situation
of just sex and not commitment and love is exactly what I
need and can accept this. Anybody been in simular situation
and offer advice or any women able to explain why she has
turned off these things in our love making ? and what could
I do to help us ..... this is not something I take lightly,
escorts are my answer to it, but not what I want to do yet,
before I feel I have been down every avenue to find that answer
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