Fear of member - please help!
I am hoping someone can give me some advice. I have been e-mailing through Adult FriendFinder and IMing through yahoo with a member of Adult FriendFinder. We haven't met yet, but I'm a little afraid of this guy. Not physically, but he has proven himself to be somewhat of a lunatic so I don't trust that he wouldn't do or say something to try and harm me professionally. I haven't given him too many specifics about myself, but if he's good and putting two and two together, he will be able to figure out who my employer is. And if he can do that, he will also be able to learn my full name. Obviously, I realize I shouldn't have even given him this much information, but it's too late now.
He evidently is a very jealous person...the thought of me contacting someone or even reading my e-mail on here threw him into a jealous rage! We have talked on the phone just once is all. He is an extremely handsome man and his profile appears normal...very interested in monogamy. But, if you are on Adult FriendFinder, he calls you an Adult FriendFinder slut or Adult FriendFinder whore. If you talk to anyone else, you warrant this name-calling. He won't listen or believe anything you say. Like I said, I don't fear him physically, but I do fear the harm he may be capable of doing to me professionally, should he decide he's upset enough. I haven't even met this guy!
Am I panicking for no reason? Has anyone else had any experience with this? I have left my profile up, but removed all photos...only my networks friends can see them. I have blocked him, and deleted him from my network. I wish I could turn off my profile to just him. I would also like to know if there is a way to keep yourself invisible when online, and not to have the last date online posted, either on the profile or on a hotlist.
Advice anyone? Please, no lectures...I know...I shouldn't have told him as much as I did. I'm entirely too trusting.
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