Cunnilingus lessons anyone? -- Part 5: Fingers
Fingers are a valuable adjunct to eating pussy. Most women
masturbate by pressing a finger or fingers over their clit,
possibly "thru" the skin of their inner or outer
lips, and vigorously rubbing in a circular or back-and-forth
direction. You can do this too, and it is most helpful to
ask, or better yet, have her show you how she likes it done.
You will never be a good lover until you can bring your woman
to climax with your hands. When you fuck her from behind,
or up her ass, or really in any position which doesn't
allow her to simultaneously rub her vulva against your
body, reach down or around and rub her clit. I know it's
distracting, but just do it anyway. One important point
to note: make sure that your fingers are well lubricated.
There is nothing more uncomfortable (and sometimes downright
painful) than a dry finger roughly rubbed across one's
clitoris.
Of course, that's not all you can do with your fingers.
One technique which is very exciting is to spread her lips
wide apart with one hand, and with your index finger straight
like a pencil, flick the side of it rapidly across her clit.
This motion alone will often bring a woman to orgasm. Combining
this with the addition of some tongue action elsewhere
is nothing short of bliss.
Sticking one or more fingers inside her vagina is also wonderful.
You can simply move them in and out (this feels best with
at least two or three fingers, pushed in hard), or wriggling
them around. A particularly intense motion is to face your
hand so that you have two fingers inside her with your palm
facing the front of her body. Now move your fingers rapidly,
as if waving hello. You are aiming to stimulate a particular
part of the woman's vagina - namely the lower anterior
(front) part. When combined with sucking her clit, this
is nearly certain to bring her to a fast and intense climax.
An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick
one (and later two) fingers inside her, with your palm cupped
over the mons area. I'm talking about that fleshy "mound"
over her pubic bone. Your finger goes in and out and the ball
of your hand is pressed hard against her vulva. You may want
to rub or even shake the entire area with your palm.
Fingers also do nice things to tight little butt holes,
but that's a whole other story...
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