Even if she says nothing, she's still doing you a favor.
I've read a lot of guys' frustrations here. Maybe
I can provide a bit of perspective for you.
If you don't receive a reply, move on. The messaging
system at Adult FriendFinder works. The woman you were interested in really
did get your missive. She chose to do nothing. Move on. She's
doing you a favor. She's not wasting your valuable
time, time you could be using to find someone who really
does wanna jump you. Move on.
If you manage to strike up a conversation, and she seems
to be into you, and you've managed to exchange a few
messages, then foom! she's stopped replying, move
on. Women can be utterly cavalier about a man's feelings.
What you may not realize is that she's been entertaining
more threads of conversation than you can ever imagine,
being the hapless average guy that you are (who's lucky
to get the occasional crumb), and she's finally found
one she's more interested in than the rest. Yes, it
sucks when she thoughtlessly throws you out, baby, along
with the bathwater, but think about it. If she treats you
this way in cyberspace, how do you think she'd treat
you in meatspace? To paraphrase Tracy Cabot, any effin'
you'd get wouldn't be worth the effin' you'd
get. Doesn't matter how cute she was were in her pictures.
She has no grace, and she has no class; she's a nincompoop
and you deserve better. Move on.
Move on. So easy to say, and very likely so hard to do. You
really wanted this girl, didn't you? Well, she's
gone. First of all, forget her entirely. That includes
analyzing what you did wrong, or more likely, what you think
you did wrong. Meanwhile, do some things for yourself.
Whiten your teeth. Review your hairstyle. Lift some weights,
jog, or even power walk a few times a week, twenty minutes
a day. You'll be amazed at how much you accomplish for
so little effort. And see if you can improve your nourishment;
Taco Bell and Carl's Jr. only go so far, you know. In
the end, you'll not only look better, and feel better
about yourself, but now you're primed to make some
better photographs you can post on Adult FriendFinder.
This is a game, bros. Look and seek and explore and never
let what happened to you cow or frustrate you and keep you
from playing the game. Not just Adult FriendFinder, but in real life as well.
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