Don't Rush BDSM union
I can remember being turned by pain at very young age, starting
with melting my crayons on a light bulb and letting the wax
drip on me. I was owned (engaged) to my first Dom when I was
in grade eleven, not because I was pregnant but because
I felt he was the ONLY one out there at the time that understood
me. Thinking who else would want a freak......duhhhhh!
We married when I as 18 because that is what he wanted. The
important thing is not to rush in to anything and don't
grow up too fast.
Yah, Yah, I sound like a parent.
Had I taken the time to educate myself first and hold on to
my fantasies rather than feeling I HAD to do everything
I feel that I would have been better off. If you experience
everything young age what is left for later?
My advice is to feel comfortable knowing that you are not
alone and wait till you are old enough to know of all your
options and you have learned whom you can trust and who you
can't. Kink will always be around; it is not going away,
there is no need to rush things
Respectfully,
cyn
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