The Almighty G-Spot
The G-spot (or Grafenberg spot) is a dime to half-dollar
sized, localized area of especially high sensitivity,
situated beneath the surface of a woman's vagina on
the wall toward the front of her body.
While location varies, the G-spot is typically located
about half way between the pubic bone and the cervix, about
three inches into the vagina.
Researchers have found that some women experience sensitivity
more generally along the upper vaginal wall, rather than
in a definable spot.
Because the G-spot is beneath the surface of the vaginal
wall, it must be stimulated indirectly through the vaginal
wall. Many women reportedly notice an urge to urinate when
the spot is initially stimulated, but find continued stimulation
(with an empty bladder), very pleasurable. Some go on to
experience orgasm, and some expel a fluid along with the
orgasmic contractions.
A Source of Great Debate
Named by researchers Perry and Whipple in honor of the German
gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, who first wrote about
it, the G-spot's existence, as well as its location,
has been a source of great debate and controversy. Grafenberg
himself identified the sensitive area as the point where
the urethra (the tube that carries urine from the bladder)
runs closest to the top of the vaginal wall.
Perry and Whipple argue that the area is located higher
up along the vagina, while Israeli sexologist Dr. Zwi Hoch,
claims that the entire anterior wall of the vagina, rather
than one particular spot, is filled with nerve endings
capable of producing intense arousal when stimulated.
Other research seems to show that the G-spot does not exist
at all for some women.
Female Ejaculation?
Also under debate is the composition of the fluid (sometimes
called female ejaculant) that is expelled by some women
during orgasm from G-spot stimulation. Some researchers
claim that it is urine; others assert that it is a substance
corresponding to seminal fluid in males (but without the
sperm, of course). Not all women with a G-spot ejaculate,
and those who do, do not necessarily ejaculate with every
G-spot orgasm.
It is relatively difficult for a woman to explore the G-spot
on her own because most do not have fingers long enough to
reach it. Inserting an appropriate, safe, clean object
into the vagina is probably required for self-exploration.
Or working with a trusted partner can make for enjoyable
self-discovery of a woman's G-spot.
Through experimentation a woman can learn the type of stimulation
that feels best to her. Penile stimulation is often more
effective when done through steady and prolonged pressure,
rather than with the usual penile thrusting, because the
G-spot generally needs an intense and quite localized
pressure. Gradually increasing the pressure will help
identify the optimal pressure for erotic pleasure without
causing pain.
Some women are able to climax simply as a result of this pressure;
in others it may act to significantly heighten arousal.
Rear entry and female on top positioning for intercourse
can be effective ways to produce more direct stimulation.
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