Mouth and Finger, Yum!
Many women have an easier time achieving an orgasm through
oral sex -- than with intercourse. And since we can only
assume that your partner would love nothing more than to
try new ways to please you -- walk him through the following
exercise:
Ask your partner not to use the tongue as a vibrator on your
clit, but to caress your clitoris, urethra and vaginal
opening with lips and tongue. Slower is better, so you have
time to absorb all the sensations and to remember to relax.
When you feel aroused, ask him to insert a finger, ever so
slowly, and rub your G-spot very slowly but firmly. Over
time, your G-spot will become more easily aroused, and
swollen, and less stimulation will be necessary to feel
ready for orgasm.
The point of this exercise is to relax and allow the sensitivity
and pleasure to grow and evolve by shifting your focus bit
by bit from clitoris to G-spot, over many lovemaking sessions.
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